Thursday, March 23, 2017

Mercy's 4th birthday

I'm not sure why, but I felt a particular excitement for Mercy to turn 4 years old. Maybe it was because I know that she's old enough to understand what a birthday is and look forward to it. It's her last year as a preschooler!

{Licking the cake batter}

{She didn't want to share with Genna, but Mommy knows what's best!}

{Mrs. E brought Mercy a yummy cookie that had real rings on it. Eevee thought Devona came to visit her.}

{Mercy wanted a chocolate cake. Eden decorated it.}

At 4 years old, Mercy
~loves to dress up, especially as a princess or a fairy
~wears size 3T pants still, but they're getting short
~weighs 33 lbs
~wears size 9 shoes


~says she loves spaghetti, but I'm not sure. She was eating it a ton recently, then hasn't touched it the last 3 times I've made her some, including on her birthday
~ate 3 servings of ravioli last night


~is very organized. She loves to put things "in order," often laying out toys in neat little rows
~loves imaginative play--Fisher Price Little People are among her favorite toys (I wish I could insert a picture here), also her kitchen set she got for Christmas


~is only partially potty trained. I share this here for reference, not to embarrass her future self. :) She can stay dry through the night many nights, but not always. She often is engrossed in play and doesn't want to stop to go to the bathroom. I know that she has all the ability to stay dry, she just hasn't put it all together yet.

~loves a lot of fruits--apples, oranges, bananas, strawberries, but not as many vegetables. She definitely prefers fresh veggies to cooked ones. She is more picky when it comes to meats.


~was sleeping with Tirzah for a long time, but has recently been asking to sleep in our room. Unfortunately for Mitch, I acquiesced. We bought a potty training alarm on Amazon and have been passing it around to the older boys who need help. When the current boy who is taking a turn has it mastered, I want to try with Mercy. So I suppose if she's still sleeping in our room, it will be easier for me to help her. ;) I think that she and Genna will end up in Tirzah's room soon. I'm just waiting for everyone to get a little older. It's not fair for Tirzah to get woken up in the middle of the night by little girls.


~loved her birthday

{We had our friends, the Chilsons, over for cake and ice cream}




~asked for a Hello Kitty rainbow dress for her birthday (because Genna got a nightgown for Christmas that pretty much fit the description exactly). I didn't find a dress, but I did find this cute shirt with a fluffy skirt. It was Genna's turn to be jealous...screaming and tears followed.


{I also found this super twirly dress for her at the thrift store. Isn't it perfect???}


Mercy is learning in leaps and bounds too. Her vocabulary increases every day, and Genna copies her. She also loves to draw and make up stories about her drawings.

We love you, Mercy, and we hope that being 4 is amazing!

Sunday, February 12, 2017

Genesis Grace is 2 years old!

We celebrated Genna's birthday a week ago. It's so fun to have a 2 year old. Genna is full of personality, and I've got pictures to show a little of it.


Saturday, January 28, 2017

One month with Eevee


Eevee (as we finally decided to call her) has been with us for one month now, and we are so blessed! Taking Eevee on a walk is one of my favorite things to do. I feel so proud to have such a beautiful girl walking beside me. But I encourage Zeke to walk her as much as possible, since this is a great way to build a relationship.

Keep reading for more pictures from the past month!

20 years!


I'm kind of going in reverse order for January...our anniversary happened before Caleb's birthday...but this is how it is today. 

This month we marked our 20th anniversary. 
The celebration will have to come later.
I am so deeply thankful to God for 20 years of marriage to my love.
It's not easy but God's grace has made it possible.

Caleb's Sweet Sixteen

The calendar flipped to a new year and didn't slow down a beat! We have been sick since the beginning of January and I thought I would blog when I felt better. With no end in sight, I am resolved to blog without feeling better.



The first order of business is Caleb's birthday! It seems that he should still be a small fry, but...sigh...that's not how it works. I can't believe he's 16. Really.

Thursday, December 29, 2016

How about a ton of Christmas photos?

We were once again overwhelmingly blessed this Christmas season. Our parents are so generous and set an example for how I hope to be as our children grow up and move out. I tease the kids and say that we had so many kids so they will take care of us when we get older...but in reality I hope that we can be a blessing to them for many decades to come. Our holiday has been mostly quiet and relaxing.

As I approached gift-giving this year, I tried to follow the same theme that we did last year: something you want, something you need, something to wear, something to read. It was a helpful guide, though I didn't really get something for everyone in the "something you need" category. Some kids (like Josh) had a bag full of clothes, while other kids (like Micah) only had a couple things...I guess that was based more on what they needed or what they asked for. I am pleased that we were able to get something for each kid that they really wanted.

Monday, December 26, 2016

A Dog's Tale



To find out how we got here,we have to go back a ways...

Thursday, December 22, 2016

Fall Semester Winding Down

As the fall semester winds down, I find myself looking forward to a break. Our break is shorter this year than normal, but since we had a longer-than-expected Thanksgiving break, it evens out.

Some fun things happening here:

~Obi is now in All About Reading Level 1, and is reading his first words. I made a lot of hoopla about it, and he is so proud.
~Eden just finished her last final today. Only one more semester of high school to go--and she will graduate with her AA degree from the community college.
~Micah was accepted to St. Cloud State University for the spring semester and is waiting for his advising day so he can sign up for classes.

Friday, December 09, 2016

Thanksgiving, etc.

I didn't forget I have a blog, but it sure feels like I forgot. I have been doing relatively well keep school on schedule through the morning and after lunch. By the time Genna is down for a nap and school is done for the day, the kids are often begging for "screen time" and I am more inclined to give it to them at that point. Unfortunately, that leaves me with no computer time. It does, however, leave me time for other things. I have enjoyed reaching one of my goals for the school year--spending regular time in prayer and quiet time (for journaling) each afternoon. I love using the app PrayerMate (android or itunes) to organize and keep me on track. It has been a sweet time for me.

Tuesday, October 18, 2016

Zeke is 13

I can't believe I almost forgot to blog about this! There's another "teenager" in our house...

Thursday, October 13, 2016

Papaw Jim and Lydia

I was thrilled when I received a text from my dad that he had the opportunity to come to Minnesota for a visit. I hadn't seen him for 3 years (when Mercy was 1 month old), and the kids hadn't seen him for 6 years (when we went on a huge trip with Patrick). Obi and Genna had never met him! And he hadn't been to Minnesota in almost 13 years (it's mostly too cold here...hehe).

My dad's wife Lydia had a training to attend in Duluth the first week of October, so they made a big trip of it all. I'm so thankful she dragged my dad along.

Monday, October 03, 2016

Family Pictures part two...kids pics

We got out Friday afternoon and took the kids' individual pictures. I am still sorting through the mess. I need to wait a few more days before I decide on my final favorites to print. I'm sure the older kids would like to give their input too. But here are some quick collages I picked out.

Minus Micah...I didn't put a collage together of him. I think I'll print his cap and gown photo for the wall.

Sunday, September 25, 2016

A Good Deal

My grandmothers taught me to be a thrifty shopper. This skill was invaluable when I got married, though I don't claim to be the best. I often miss good deals or spend too much money and realize it later. I rarely clip coupons, though I do grab what I can at the grocery store and stock up on sales of items that we use frequently. Early in our marriage Mitch and I made mistakes and within a few years found ourselves under a burden of debt that we didn't have the means to escape. We took Dave Ramsey's course, Mitch changed jobs to increase our income, but we were still unable to fix the mess ourselves. I tell people, "We flunked Financial Peace University."

Wednesday, September 14, 2016

Family Pictures 2016 edition!

Micah warned us a couple months ago that come September, he was leaving. He has changed his direction a few times since then, but the date of departure has only varied by a few days. I finally got serious about trying to find a time to take family pictures before he left, but it seemed to elude us. He was planning to leave today, so my time was pretty much up. Last night we got it done. I didn't take individual shots, but I got the family ones. Here they are, along with some extras!


Monday, September 05, 2016

Bee Keeping

Mitch has been bee-keeping with his dad this summer. It has been quite a journey! It has been something that he has taken the kids along to do. He has read books, watched videos, and gone to meetings. He has been through a range of emotions too--giddy in love with his bees, to having terrifying nightmares of being attacked. :) He has spent many, many hours this summer taking care of them, and he is sure that he has been in trouble with me because of it. (There may be a little bit of truth to that.)

Here are some incredibly beautiful pictures Kathi took when she was here this summer...

Sunday, September 04, 2016

Genna at 19 months

Genna is 19 months old today and I thought I would write a little update.

Friday, September 02, 2016

Josh is 11!

Poor Josh was so excited for his birthday that he made a countdown chain. It was disappointing, then, to learn that we would be doing school on his birthday. Not to worry, since it is the first week, we are taking things pretty easy. I think the thought of doing school on his birthday was worse than actually doing the schoolwork. ;) He didn't have to do that much.

Josh asked for a white cake with chocolate frosting and sixlets as decorations. I did my best to deliver!

Sunday, August 28, 2016

Back to School (2016 curriculum)

I love blogging about our homeschool curriculum choices. I wish I had written an update at the end of our school year about how it all went. It was fine...we didn't crash and burn overall.
We just completed our 9th year of homeschooling. I have to count...that can't be right! And now we start the 10th year. An entire decade spent homeschooling. Wowzers. When you take things one day at a time, it really adds up fast! I am so thankful that we have the opportunity and freedom to shape our children's education. I am more committed to our family's mission statement than ever before. My philosophy of education is continually being shaped and rebuilt. I know that homeschooling isn't for everyone, nor should it be. But I think that somewhere deep within this model of education lies the secret to the reform that the United States Department of Education needs to adopt for public schools. I hope they find it some day. In the meantime, we are still far from perfect here, but we arm ourselves with the resources that we have available and we strive always to move forward with clear goals.

Friday, August 19, 2016

A Special Visitor

We had a very special visitor over the past few weeks.


Kathi!!!

Saturday, July 30, 2016

The Long Road Home

On the 10th day of our journey, we set our sights toward home, but we didn't hit the road right away.

First we went to church together at a local youth camp. Their pastor is preaching through the book of John this summer and they were at chapters 4-6. We paused at these stories that you probably know well: Jesus and the woman at the well, Jesus feeds the five thousand, and Jesus says, "I am the bread of life." For context, we flipped back to the end of Exodus chapter 15 through the beginning of Exodus 16. Moses had just led the Hebrew people out of Egypt. God had performed many miracles in the exodus. But now the people had been walking for 3 days and had no water.

Pause.

Thursday, July 28, 2016

Games, Grand Beach, Turtle Tide

I'm going to try to wrap up the rest of our time in Canada in one post. :) Then I'll write about our return-trip drama.

When we weren't playing on the water, we spent down time relaxing. The kids enjoyed playing games or playing on their kindles. I did some reading and knitting. I think there were a few naps thrown in for good measure.

{Canasta}

Wednesday, July 27, 2016

Winnipeg

In the weeks before our trip to Canada, Mercy would ask us many times a day, "When are we going to Canada?" When we finally got to Canada, she was in such a habit of saying it that she still occasionally asked. We just laughed and laughed. Eventually we pointed out the Canadian flag, and I think that was what helped her make the connection that we were in Canada.

I didn't want to add to her confusion by telling her that the cabin we were staying in was actually Cam's parents' home and that Cam lived in a different house. But we did get to go to Winnipeg and visit Cam's place. When we walked in, he said, "Welcome to Cam-a-lot." Hehe.

We headed into Winnipeg after we were done visiting Lower Fort Garry. On our way, we stopped at a cute little restaurant and picnicked outside.

Lower Fort Garry

One day while we were in Canada, we took a trip to Winnipeg. Cam actually lives in the city, but we were staying at the lake for our visit. On the way in, we went to Lower Fort Garry for a visit. Wednesdays are children's days at the fort (was that planned, or did we just happen to go on Wednesday? Knowing Cam's mom, it was probably intentional...). When we arrived, the kids were handed checklists so they could "work" at the fort that day and earn their "salaries." It was a lot of fun.

Sunday, July 24, 2016

Fun on the water

We spent a lot of time at the cabin in Canada just playing on the water. The kids splashed around on the shore, learned how to tool around in the kayaks and paddle boat, and played in the sand. Cam's parents (and brother) took us out in turns on the pontoon boat, too. Here are a whole ton of water pictures. They are out of order because they are a collection from all our cell phones and my big Nikon.

We were blessed with such beautiful weather the whole week. At the beginning of the week, the forecast included rain every day. Each day the forecast changed, sometimes hourly. We thought, "Oh, let's get out and play now because it looks like it will rain this afternoon." Then by afternoon, the rain was postponed until sunset, and by sunset the threat had passed. It was so cool. We just enjoyed each moment that came.

Stormy...

Thursday, July 21, 2016

O Canada!

On July 1, which happens to be Canada Day, we headed off to Canada for our first international trip as a large family (only missing Micah). My mom said she tells people I'm so far north that I practically live in Canada anyway, so I guess this trip is not big news. We were gone for 10 12 days, so I won't be able to tackle this all in one shot.

Genna is not a good traveler. She doesn't like her car seat and will cry persistently. Up to this point, we hadn't really had to endure her screaming for more than short trips. She proved her endurance on our journey, which was not less than 7.5 hours of straight driving (which we did not manage to do). During one rest stop I flipped her car seat around forward facing, hoping that the change of scenery would improve her mood. As you can see, it did not...

Wednesday, July 20, 2016

June Updates

I realized when I re-read my last post (about Micah's birthday) that I am really rusty with writing. I guess if you don't use it, you really do lose it. I must make time to write more! I must!

We have had an eventful summer already. We kicked it off with a visit from my mom, Janet, and Joel. That launched us into our list of summer projects, which looked something like this (sorry for the bad picture quality):

Monday, July 18, 2016

19 years old!

The way time passes just never ceases to amaze me. Rather than moving forward through time, I feel like I have stood still, while time flows around and beyond me. It is so strange. And now we are marking the passing of 19 years by celebrating Micah's birthday.

We were on a vacation in Canada and were supposed to be home in time for his birthday, but then our van broke down and we were delayed a couple days. So we finally celebrated his birthday a week later. I should count up how many times over the years that we have not been home to celebrate Micah's birthday. It seems that half the time we are going and doing. :)

Monday, June 20, 2016

Malachi is 9 years old!

We celebrated Malachi's birthday on the 2nd. This summer doesn't seem to be slowing down any and I'm so far behind. One thing at a time!

On the day before Malachi's birthday, he was sort of "jumping" onto a chair that has wheels on the bottom and missed. He cut his foot open and it looked pretty deep. It was early in the morning, and I wasn't even close to ready for the day, so I woke Mitch up and sent him off to the ER with Malachi. A few hours later they returned, Malachi sporting 5 stitches.

Tuesday, June 14, 2016

Way Behind

I'm pretty far behind, and I admit it. We've had a full, busy spring here, and it doesn't look like we'll slow down any at all as we head into summer. Sigh...

I have missed so much and there are literally thousands of photos to choose from if I wanted to even share a glimpse of what we've been up to. I don't know where to start!

So I bought myself a little journal to carry around and write myself notes, so I can remember what I *really* wanted to blog about. And I'll get to it, I hope.


Friday, May 20, 2016

Graduation Announcement

Navigating new waters, we are pleased to announce the first Theis Family Homeschool graduate,

Micah Theis

Class of 2016

HEY Graduation Ceremony

Sunday, May 22, 2016 at 3:00 pm
Calvary Community Church
St. Cloud, MN




We invite those who would join us in supporting Micah as he makes this important step into adulthood. Since many of our extended family live far away, we want those friends who have been our stand-in "family" to feel welcome and invited to attend the ceremony. 

Please join us in extending congratulations to Micah and prayers of blessing for his future.

Thank you!



(We have not yet planned a separate celebration.)


Monday, May 09, 2016

Mother's Day (and Josh's Baptism)

I had a beautiful Mother's Day. Genna woke me up fairly early, and I looked over and thought I saw Mitch's form curled up under the covers. As I got up and dressed quickly, I thought it was strange that Mitch was sleeping with the pillow over his head. I took a second look and realized he wasn't in the bed...it was all just a pile of pillows. I had a little chuckle. I came upstairs to find Mitch and Eden working in the kitchen like two busy bees. The table was set for breakfast, pancakes, bacon, juice and coffee were all in the works. I passed Genna off and went to enjoy a shower. It was glorious!! Eden gave me some of my favorite chocolates. Mitch was a natural leader in the kitchen, getting kids breakfast, directing them to their showers, and cleaning up.

Josh had been asking for some time to be baptized. Last Sunday we heard that there would be a baptism service this Sunday, so after an interview with church leaders he was added to the slate. He was SO excited all week long!

Monday, May 02, 2016

Tirzah is 7 years old!

I thought I would get this post written right away, but instead the days are flipping by on the calendar in such a blur. Over the past month or two I have begun a new routine with the kids to help our day go a bit more smoothly. I have been doing school right away in the morning with Tirzah, while the older boys get an hour or two to play. This gives Tirzah and I some one-on-one time to work on reading plus any other concepts she needs direct instruction for. It also gives the boys time to "get ready" for school. In some ways, it helps them get out their wiggles and focus better. This morning Tirzah begged for time to play also, with Malachi, so I relinquished for the sole purpose of writing her blog post. :)

Tirzah's birthday was a fun day. Mrs. E came over Tuesday morning with a birthday treat. A cupcake on a cookie!

Monday, April 11, 2016

Mercy's 1st Haircut

Mercy joined the ranks of her sisters in giving herself a haircut today. :(




I think the only thing that kept it from being worse is that she can't hold the scissors correctly yet. She had to hold them with two hands.

This is after I cleaned it up:





Saturday, April 09, 2016

Obadiah is 5 years old!!!

I realized this morning that for the first time since Micah was born, we don't have a little boy under 5 years old in our house. Weird.

I can't believe my little guy is so big. He is 100% ready to start kindergarten, at least in motivation.

At age 5 years old, Obi
~weighs 41 lbs
~is about 44 inches tall
~wears size 5T clothing
~wears a size 12 shoe

~made a treat all by himself for his birthday buddy, Mrs. E


~and received a birthday treat from Mrs. E--a frosted cookie
~loves basketball. And he doesn't quite understand that homeschool basketball is done for the year and won't start again until next January (which is practically 1/5 of his lifetime away!).


~makes a lot of different faces

~got this shirt, which is a favorite, for his birthday last year. Whoa, was it a "wear red/pink" day?



~has an unrealistic view of what he is able to do by himself. But he can NOT go downstairs by himself. Not at all. He is afraid. If he knows that Genna is sleeping downstairs, that will give him enough courage to do it. I was a negligent parent recently and downloaded a game to the kindle at the request of one of my older kids. I didn't look at the app (my mistake) until the kids had played it for a while and Obi had gotten totally freaked out. Poor guy. He loved it, but at the same time it terrified him even more to go into dark places alone. He would say things like, "Scary stuff is fun. I love scary stuff." But then he was too scared to go potty. A day or two after we deleted the app he came to me and said, "I know it's not real." Lesson learned, Momma. Check those ratings.



~wanted a strawberry cake with blue frosting and a lightning bolt
~didn't eat much of his cake after we cut it. I think he was too full. He said he "didn't like it very much." The next morning he had a piece for breakfast. :) I think we've just had too much cake and candy lately between birthdays and Easter.

~wanted chicken wild rice soup for dinner on his birthday, which was on Tuesday. On the Sunday before, when we typically eat leftovers for dinner after church, he asked for leftover chicken wild rice soup. He didn't understand that I had not made it yet. He thought it was as good as done. ::lol::
~also likes sloppy joes, hot dogs, cheese pizza, peanut butter sandwiches, ham sandwiches, quesadillas, apples, bananas, pineapples, and pears. He does not like spicy foods including tacos and chili. He's not a huge fan of dishes with a tomato sauce base either (pizza hotdish, lasagna, spaghetti), but he will usually try some when he sees everyone else so excited.


~wants to learn how to ride a bike (since Tirzah just learned). He told me he had a dream he learned how. :)
~got a new lego game for the xbox for his birthday, and it's his favorite
~sleeps in his own bed at night, but occasionally comes in our room to wake us. Looking at where we were a year ago, I'd say this is a big accomplishment.  I think he has growing pains a lot. Also sometimes he actually wakes up to go potty (yay!) and he gets scared to go back to his bed alone. He is a Daddy's boy at night, and Mitch is usually very quick to help Obi. Sometimes Mitch puts Obi into the bed next to him, then moves him back to his bed after he falls asleep. Mitch had a lot of growing pains when he was a kid, so he is an expert at giving middle-of-the-night leg massages. (I've even had a few when I get charlie horses during pregnancy.)
~can put his own laundry away by himself (whether he will do it or not is another story!)
~has a strong sense of justice and gets very angry when his rights have been violated. I've even seen him get angry on behalf of injustice done to another person. He is quick to administer punishment, too (ie: he hits his siblings, and even me, if he is mad). Of course we are always trying to interrupt patterns of behavior that are not ok. He seems to need a lot more empathy than some of our other children (at least on the outside). I'm all for justice, and I try to be fair whenever I can. I also try not to be lazy in administering justice. But the 5 year old's sense of justice isn't quite developed yet, and sometimes he disagrees with my judgement. Fun times. ;) I hope he learns to live by grace.
~is very affectionate and loves to give hugs and kisses. Empathy, listening to his problem, and giving hugs is what he often needs to unwind his anger.

Happy Birthday, Obadiah Benjamin!!!