Thursday, February 22, 2018

My Experience with "The Curly Girl Method"

Back in October, my friend Katie came over to my house and her hair looked so cute (it was curly). She often does cute things with her girls' hair, so I asked how she did it. She told me about the Curly Girl Method, and she added me to a group on Facebook called Curly Girls! (Conditioner Washing Group for Women). The group had a lot of files to read through, and it was a lot of information, but I had seen the amazing results in her hair. I was motivated to dive in. I spent a lot of time reading, and I couldn't wait to go shopping.

Some basics of the Curly Girl Method: wash your curly hair with conditioner only. Use products that are friendly to curly hair.

That is the super-over-simplified version. There's actually an entire book on the method, and even salons specially dedicated to it. I learned everything I know from the Facebook group and a Wikihow page. I can't wait to show you the results. If you're interested, all you need to do is search Google or search Facebook. If you join the group, you'll find an invaluable wealth of information, photos, and videos to help you determine your hair type and choose products for your hair.

*side notes: I have taken a ton of selfies throughout this process to document my journey. I hate selfies and I'm totally embarrassed to even have them on my phone. I even hate the word "selfies" but it has been crazy to document.

My most dramatic before and after photo:
On the left is my hair at Genna's 2nd birthday on February 4, 2017. The right is my hair on her 3rd birthday, this year.

Tuesday, February 20, 2018

Genesis is 3 years old!

It is so fun to be three! Genna is talking so well and is so smart. She was able to understand that it was going to be her birthday and that she would be three years old. I love that!

 I was too slow to get a picture of her with her cookie from Mrs. Emerson before Genna had already destroyed it. :)

Monday, January 29, 2018

A scary update...

Things have been mostly going very well with my 11th pregnancy. Nausea eased up finally about the middle of January and my energy level began to return to normal. I have had a few trips out to the thrift stores in search of great deals on maternity clothes and a few baby clothes. The big boys brought down what I have left of baby clothes out of the garage attic, and I went through those and took inventory so I could figure out what I still need to buy. Mostly we will need 6-9 month winter clothes, and 12-month spring and summer clothes. I've found some really good deals since then. I couldn't resist picking up a cute summer 0-3 month outfit on clearance for only $2. It's weird to think that I don't need a fuzzy warm sleeper to use as a coming-home outfit. I also picked out some yarn and a pattern and started crocheting a blanket.



Wow, 17 years old!!

This handsome young man turned 17 this month...


Saturday, January 20, 2018

12 week NT scan

Due to "advanced maternal age" (ahem...they lowered it to 29 I think), I was given the option to do some first-trimester screening. That includes an ultrasound at around 12 weeks, so I was all in! This special ultrasound is called a nuchal translucency (NT) scan. The trained technician looks for certain markers of chromosomal abnormalities. One is a measure of the fluid at the back of the neck (the nuchal fold). Another is the nasal bone. These are not definitive tests, but instead give a risk factor (need I remind you of my thoughts on statistics?) Before I had the scan, I met with a very nice genetics counselor who had a cool little ruler and made cute symbols on some graph paper while she asked me questions about my family (I was embarrassed that there were so many questions I couldn't answer). This initial interview put me in a low-risk category for anything genetic other than hereditary spherocytosis. She explained that my age would skew the statistics of the NT scan, and offered me the choice of a blood draw that would map the fetal DNA that is present in my bloodstream. She didn't know about my opinion on statistics, or she would have known that my answer would be in favor of accuracy over risk factors. When I said yes to the Counsyl Prelude screen, she informed me that the test could also tell us the sex chromosomes. I said yes, definitely, to that too.

Thursday, December 28, 2017

Our Christmas Announcement


It came as a bit of a shock in November when I missed my period. We have been using conservative birth control methods and felt quite comfortable that we had mastered it since it has worked well for the past two years. Of course, we prayed for wisdom often and felt that even if a "surprise" happened we would know that God is ultimately in control. If the decision was completely up to us, we had planned for Genesis to be the last of our biological children. When she potty trained this summer, then moved out of our room and into the girls' room, that solidified it for me. I was 100% ready to move on to the next stage of parenting--done with diapers!

Tuesday, November 14, 2017

Family Pictures 2017

We were blessed with a perfectly warm October day when all of us could actually get together. It almost didn't happen this year due to complicated schedules, unreliable weather, and a meltdown by one of the kids about an hour before we started. Once we got to the park and got started taking pictures, I was caught by surprise by how quickly it went. I think the pictures turned out great this year! Pretty much everyone on my social media accounts has seen them already, but for the sake of my blog, here they are. :)

My top 3 favorite group photos.
(The lovely lady standing with Micah is his girlfriend, Katie.)

Thursday, November 02, 2017

Zeke is 14!

Well now, this post isn't quite as overdue as Josh's post was. Zeke's birthday was 3 weeks ago. So I don't have to go quite so far back to find photos.

Every year when we celebrate Zeke's birthday, we hit this sweet spot where for 3 months all our children's ages are two years apart. The problem is, I usually start with the oldest and try to count backwards by twos. I probably miss a kid when I do that. But here we are: 20, 18, 16, 14, 12, 10, 8, 6, 4, and 2.

At 14 years old, Zeke


~is in 8th grade
~wears a size 16 pants (but some are too short...another long and skinny kid) and a size 11.5 men's shoe (look at those shiny new shoes!).

Wednesday, November 01, 2017

Josh is 12!

I'm only 2 months late in posting this. ::wink:: I'm tired of offering excuses for my writing delays. I'll be bluntly honest--I do get free time and I keep choosing to do other things instead of blogging. I am distracted. The thing is, I love to write, and I don't know why I'm not choosing to write more frequently. Time marches on and some stories are lost.

Since I last wrote, we celebrated 2 more birthdays. And if there's one thing that will bring me back to blogging, it will be birthday celebrations. Second to that is family photos. That post is coming. Josh celebrated his birthday at the end of August and he is due for a post all about him.

  At 12 years old, Josh
~is not 13. Sometimes I forget that. He's a fairly mature and capable young man.

Sunday, August 27, 2017

A Life Well Lived

I've been feeling introspective lately, so I dug up some old bones. I braved spiders and their webs in our crawl space to get to the ignored tubs marked "memorabilia" Mitch and I collected before we were married...which is so long ago now, that it feels like a past life. In fact, on February 8th of this year I had been married to Mitch exactly half of my life. And just a couple weeks ago, on August 16th, Mitch had been married to me exactly half his life. As someone who loves to celebrate the number of days of marriage, you would think I wouldn't let that one slip by me. But I did the calculations a few months ago and then somehow managed to not write them down in my calendar. Oh well, anyway, both of us have been married to each other for more than half our lives. And that's a really cool feeling.
j'

Thursday, August 24, 2017

2017 Curriculum Picks for Theis Homeschool

I'm torn between writing an update post and writing our annual back to school post. Back to School wins this morning because it's easier to write. :)

A super short update on where we are at the end of the summer: Mitch is reluctantly getting ready to go back to school on Monday. He's spending his last few days of break helping Grant in the shop and tending to his honeybees. It's almost time to harvest honey. This has been a very good year for splitting hives, and he is hopeful that many of his queens and nucs will survive the winter. If so, he will sell bees next spring. Working in the shop with Grant has been a blessing. Micah is all moved in to St. Cloud State University. He has actually been there since the beginning of August, training to be a Community Advisor. He is on the Criminal Justice floor of his dorm. He is really enjoying the position. Judging by the books that arrived a few days ago, he is going to have an informative semester. Eden landed in Germany yesterday. She saw Patrick and some of his family, and they helped her get to her final destination to see Kathi. Last night she went to bed in Oerlinghausen. Oh my heart!


10 years of homeschooling under my belt! Crazy!

Ok, on to year 11.

Sunday, July 30, 2017

Dream Trip to Germany

I blogged every day while Mitch was in Ukraine. Once he went to Germany, I didn't blog at all. I knew I would regret that...lol. He has a lot of stories and memories, and there's no way I can share it all. He was welcomed by Kathi and her family, then by Patrick and his family. Both families were amazing hosts and he had an amazing trip. I will share a small part of it. (This doesn't include any of Kathi's or Patrick's pictures, nor any of the great videos Mitch has to share.)


 {Kathi and Mitch, and a castle way in the background. Castles are so very cool.}

Sunday, July 16, 2017

The Last Day in Horol

Today was a sweet time of celebrating and goodbyes. Victoria and Mitch sent me pictures. I have so many, that there's no way I can share them all!

First off, I have the video message they filmed yesterday...



Saturday, July 15, 2017

Day 10 of Ukraine Trip

At about 20 minutes to 4 pm my time, I had nearly given up on getting to talk to Mitch again today. But within a few minutes, he texted me--even though it was nearly midnight his time. He said they had been super busy packing gift bags for all the volunteers (35), and that Heather is awesome at that! (p.s. Calvary family, that's what all the peanut butter and brown sugar was for, plus more items).

They had a quiet morning today. At some point they drove back out to the sunflower field for more pictures and to record a message for our church family. That will play tomorrow, so I'm not going to post it until then. But you can see the great pictures! They also went shopping this morning for food and supplies.

 {Oksana and Heather at breakfast}

Friday, July 14, 2017

Day 9 of trip, Final day of VBS Kids' Camp in Ukraine

I have many beautiful pictures to share tonight from the last day of kids' camp and from the team's trip out to the village. Sorry for the long delay. Today was the first day that I finally was able to make head-way on my to-do list. Once I caught that momentum, I didn't want to stop!

I seriously have so many pictures, I'm not sure where to start. :)

Our team started out the day at VBS and Mitch provided some pre-exercise entertainment by juggling.


Thursday, July 13, 2017

Day 8 of trip, Day 4 of VBS Kids' Camp in Ukraine

Today was a rainy day! Mitch said that they got lots of hard rain. Because of the rain, some campers didn't come today. But 15 new children came, and a total of 150 children were there. You are going to want to read all the way to the bottom for a great compilation video Mitch just sent me.


{Vica helping lead exercises, I tried following along the hand motions they are doing and, well, I'm just not that talented. ;)}

Wednesday, July 12, 2017

Day 7 of trip, Day 3 of VBS Kids' Camp in Ukraine

Today was a great day!!

First off, someone made sure I got these photos from the American meal. They love me. :)
 {This plate of corn dogs Victoria is holding looks so good that now I want to try this recipe here when Mitch gets home. Great job, team!}

{Gathered for the American meal.}

Now on to today. Thank you for your prayers for the weather. Storms were forecast for today, but they didn't hit until after camp was done. Pastor Grigorii said that it was good to get rain for the farmers. Then Mitch said, "God kept the storm from our harvest, and brought the storm for the farmer's harvest." Pastor added, "Our harvest is more important though." Even more children came today, for a total of 170!

Tuesday, July 11, 2017

Day 6 of trip, Day 2 of VBS Kids Camp in Ukraine

The team had another great day in Ukraine!

I'm having some technical difficulties on my end with photos, but I'll start writing and in the meantime I'm hoping that everything I need will finish uploading. Maybe I already used my daily allowance of WiFi data? LOL It's finally working. Can I get a "Hallelujah"?

Today I talked with Mitch a few times. He had a lot of trouble sleeping last night, so he was awake when we were going to bed (4 a.m. his time). I did send some unisom with him, so if he doesn't sleep well tonight (or right now, actually), I hope that tomorrow night he will take it. It was sweet though because he got to say good night to the kids. We had a little fun with the Facebook Messenger app.


Monday, July 10, 2017

Day 5 of trip, Day 1 of VBS Kids Camp in Ukraine

Today I got many great pictures and videos of the first day of kids' camp/VBS. I enjoyed a quiet phone call with Mitch too, which was a blessing.

 {Heading to camp}


Today took a lot of organization and orientation. Kids arrived at all different times, so some got to play longer while others didn't really get a chance to play. When kids arrived, they got registered, then received a hat and a t-shirt. The backdrop I had a picture of yesterday makes a great photo booth, and kids had cameras or cell phones and were taking pictures by it. Mitch said that the kids rotate through 3 stations--crafts, Bible time, and sports. They spend an hour in each, except the last 15 min of sports is actually snack time. It actually got quite hot today and they were all feeling it! After the snack, they have a closing time with songs and a skit.


Sunday, July 09, 2017

The 1st Sunday in Ukraine

I got a lot of pictures and a video today!

{Nightly devotions with Pastor Grigorii}

I know this is a precious time for the team. One of my favorite things about being on a short-term missions trip is the focused time for devotions and time in the Word. While I have a personal time each day where I read the Bible and pray, it is special to be in a small group--sometimes of people that I don't know very well--and to share together. I hope these are times of renewal and refreshment for the team, that they are fruitful and unifying. Our team members are taking turns leading each night. 

{The Horol Church}

Saturday, July 08, 2017

Day 3 in Ukraine

It's so strange that when I am going to bed, Mitch is almost waking up, and he is headed to bed when it is still afternoon here. Anyway, it gives me lots of daylight to write a blog post!

Last night Mitch woke up around 3 a.m. his time and struggled to get back to sleep. Finally, around 4:30 a.m. (8:30 p.m. my time) he gave up trying to get back to sleep and texted me instead. We texted back and forth a little while, but eventually he decided to just get up and get started with sermon prep for Sunday morning. I decided it was time to wrangle the kids and send them to bed.

As I headed to bed I looked outside and was surprised to see a full moon rising in the pink of the setting sun.


I asked him if he could see the moon setting, since it was rising here. By that point, it was already blocked by hills, but instead he sent me the sunrise over Zhenya's hothouse...



Friday, July 07, 2017

Day 2 in Ukraine

I was able to talk with Mitch via Facebook Messenger app today. The kids were all excited to say hi and "see" their daddy. We also got to say hi to their host family and the rest of the team, and received a blessing from Pastor Grigorii.

Last night after arriving in Horol, our team got out some of the sports equipment they brought and taught the family how to play 4-Square. Mitch said they played for hours (which is funny considering how long they had been awake). Victoria made a time-lapse video, so I hope to see that. :) One of the translators whom we've been friends with for nearly a decade, AJ, said that he is very competitive and he loves the new game now. Mitch is really competitive too...I'd like to see those two have a game after Mitch is rested up. Haha. I wish I had sent Mitch's knee braces now. :)

{Here is an old picture of Mitch and AJ from 9 years ago on Mitch's first trip to Ukraine. I bet they both think they are still this young.}

Thursday, July 06, 2017

Made it to Ukraine!



We said our goodbyes to Mitch yesterday morning, after a crazy morning of finishing up packing and getting ready for the trip. I took him to church, where a group of people gathered to pray over the team (Mitch and two others from our church). After the time of prayer (we were running late), we shuffled and weighed the checked bags again. They could each bring 3 large suitcases, but they had to be under 50 lbs each. This one was over, that one was under...you get the idea. Mitch took quite a bit of heavy stuff in his carry-on bag. And we even took out a few pounds of less-needed items and put them back into storage for the next trip. Someone snapped pictures of the contents in each bag (in case they were lost). Then it was really time for me to say goodbye. I could have easily been crying all morning, so at this point, when Mitch leaned over and gave me a kiss on the head, I had to make a run for the car where I felt I could cry and get it over with. ;) 

Friday, June 16, 2017

Return to Ukraine



Now that the official arrangements have been made, I can announce that Mitch will be returning to Ukraine in July to offer support to the ministry of our sister church in Khorol. He will be travelling with two other people from our church, and they will be in Ukraine for 12 days.

On the way back, Mitch will return through Frankfurt and stay in Germany for an extra week to visit Kathi and Patrick and their families. He is so excited for a reunion with them! I'm so thankful that it worked out for Mitch to go there this year. We have dreamed about it and hoped it would work out.

Friday, June 09, 2017

Whoo! Malachi is 10!

Last week we celebrated Chi guy's 10th birthday! It's hard to believe he is TEN years old. That's so big! On the other hand, Malachi can do so many things now, that it feels good to finally be able to say he is 10 years old.

{All that remained of his cookie Mrs. E brought over...I failed to get a picture before he enjoyed it.}

Malachi's birthday fell on the first Friday of June this year, which is National Donut Day. We also got a dozen donuts to share. And we figured out when the next time his birthday will be on National Donut Day again, since this is the first time it's ever been on his birthday...it will be when he's 16. I think it's so appropriate, since he is my boy who loves sweets the most.

Wednesday, May 03, 2017

Tuesday, April 18, 2017

Obadiah just turned 6!

I miss my blogging days, but at least these birthdays rolling through are keeping me a little bit accountable. ;)  This time our Obi Wan Kenobi took a turn in the birthday seat.


Tuesday, April 04, 2017

Eden has reached adulthood!

Somehow, unbelievably, Eden went from this:

to this:

And I just don't even know how that happened!

Thursday, March 23, 2017

Mercy's 4th birthday

I'm not sure why, but I felt a particular excitement for Mercy to turn 4 years old. Maybe it was because I know that she's old enough to understand what a birthday is and look forward to it. It's her last year as a preschooler!

{Licking the cake batter}

{She didn't want to share with Genna, but Mommy knows what's best!}

Sunday, February 12, 2017

Genesis Grace is 2 years old!

We celebrated Genna's birthday a week ago. It's so fun to have a 2 year old. Genna is full of personality, and I've got pictures to show a little of it.


Saturday, January 28, 2017

One month with Eevee


Eevee (as we finally decided to call her) has been with us for one month now, and we are so blessed! Taking Eevee on a walk is one of my favorite things to do. I feel so proud to have such a beautiful girl walking beside me. But I encourage Zeke to walk her as much as possible, since this is a great way to build a relationship.

Keep reading for more pictures from the past month!

20 years!


I'm kind of going in reverse order for January...our anniversary happened before Caleb's birthday...but this is how it is today. 

This month we marked our 20th anniversary. 
The celebration will have to come later.
I am so deeply thankful to God for 20 years of marriage to my love.
It's not easy but God's grace has made it possible.

Caleb's Sweet Sixteen

The calendar flipped to a new year and didn't slow down a beat! We have been sick since the beginning of January and I thought I would blog when I felt better. With no end in sight, I am resolved to blog without feeling better.



The first order of business is Caleb's birthday! It seems that he should still be a small fry, but...sigh...that's not how it works. I can't believe he's 16. Really.

Thursday, December 29, 2016

How about a ton of Christmas photos?

We were once again overwhelmingly blessed this Christmas season. Our parents are so generous and set an example for how I hope to be as our children grow up and move out. I tease the kids and say that we had so many kids so they will take care of us when we get older...but in reality I hope that we can be a blessing to them for many decades to come. Our holiday has been mostly quiet and relaxing.

As I approached gift-giving this year, I tried to follow the same theme that we did last year: something you want, something you need, something to wear, something to read. It was a helpful guide, though I didn't really get something for everyone in the "something you need" category. Some kids (like Josh) had a bag full of clothes, while other kids (like Micah) only had a couple things...I guess that was based more on what they needed or what they asked for. I am pleased that we were able to get something for each kid that they really wanted.