Monday, April 11, 2016

Mercy's 1st Haircut

Mercy joined the ranks of her sisters in giving herself a haircut today. :(

I think the only thing that kept it from being worse is that she can't hold the scissors correctly yet. She had to hold them with two hands.

This is after I cleaned it up:

Saturday, April 09, 2016

Obadiah is 5 years old!!!

I realized this morning that for the first time since Micah was born, we don't have a little boy under 5 years old in our house. Weird.

I can't believe my little guy is so big. He is 100% ready to start kindergarten, at least in motivation.

At age 5 years old, Obi
~weighs 41 lbs
~is about 44 inches tall
~wears size 5T clothing
~wears a size 12 shoe

~made a treat all by himself for his birthday buddy, Mrs. E

~and received a birthday treat from Mrs. E--a frosted cookie
~loves basketball. And he doesn't quite understand that homeschool basketball is done for the year and won't start again until next January (which is practically 1/5 of his lifetime away!).

~makes a lot of different faces

~got this shirt, which is a favorite, for his birthday last year. Whoa, was it a "wear red/pink" day?

~has an unrealistic view of what he is able to do by himself. But he can NOT go downstairs by himself. Not at all. He is afraid. If he knows that Genna is sleeping downstairs, that will give him enough courage to do it. I was a negligent parent recently and downloaded a game to the kindle at the request of one of my older kids. I didn't look at the app (my mistake) until the kids had played it for a while and Obi had gotten totally freaked out. Poor guy. He loved it, but at the same time it terrified him even more to go into dark places alone. He would say things like, "Scary stuff is fun. I love scary stuff." But then he was too scared to go potty. A day or two after we deleted the app he came to me and said, "I know it's not real." Lesson learned, Momma. Check those ratings.

~wanted a strawberry cake with blue frosting and a lightning bolt
~didn't eat much of his cake after we cut it. I think he was too full. He said he "didn't like it very much." The next morning he had a piece for breakfast. :) I think we've just had too much cake and candy lately between birthdays and Easter.

~wanted chicken wild rice soup for dinner on his birthday, which was on Tuesday. On the Sunday before, when we typically eat leftovers for dinner after church, he asked for leftover chicken wild rice soup. He didn't understand that I had not made it yet. He thought it was as good as done. ::lol::
~also likes sloppy joes, hot dogs, cheese pizza, peanut butter sandwiches, ham sandwiches, quesadillas, apples, bananas, pineapples, and pears. He does not like spicy foods including tacos and chili. He's not a huge fan of dishes with a tomato sauce base either (pizza hotdish, lasagna, spaghetti), but he will usually try some when he sees everyone else so excited.

~wants to learn how to ride a bike (since Tirzah just learned). He told me he had a dream he learned how. :)
~got a new lego game for the xbox for his birthday, and it's his favorite
~sleeps in his own bed at night, but occasionally comes in our room to wake us. Looking at where we were a year ago, I'd say this is a big accomplishment.  I think he has growing pains a lot. Also sometimes he actually wakes up to go potty (yay!) and he gets scared to go back to his bed alone. He is a Daddy's boy at night, and Mitch is usually very quick to help Obi. Sometimes Mitch puts Obi into the bed next to him, then moves him back to his bed after he falls asleep. Mitch had a lot of growing pains when he was a kid, so he is an expert at giving middle-of-the-night leg massages. (I've even had a few when I get charlie horses during pregnancy.)
~can put his own laundry away by himself (whether he will do it or not is another story!)
~has a strong sense of justice and gets very angry when his rights have been violated. I've even seen him get angry on behalf of injustice done to another person. He is quick to administer punishment, too (ie: he hits his siblings, and even me, if he is mad). Of course we are always trying to interrupt patterns of behavior that are not ok. He seems to need a lot more empathy than some of our other children (at least on the outside). I'm all for justice, and I try to be fair whenever I can. I also try not to be lazy in administering justice. But the 5 year old's sense of justice isn't quite developed yet, and sometimes he disagrees with my judgement. Fun times. ;) I hope he learns to live by grace.
~is very affectionate and loves to give hugs and kisses. Empathy, listening to his problem, and giving hugs is what he often needs to unwind his anger.

Happy Birthday, Obadiah Benjamin!!!

Genna's words

Genna's first word was "Momma." She also could say "Dada" and "baba" but mostly just babbling. She also learned to say "uh-oh" and it was the cutest thing ever, but she stopped saying it after a while and worked on other things. "No" was another word in her vocabulary. But in the past few days she has added the following important words to her vocabulary.



Along with the word "no" she hasn't stopped practicing all three, and she has demonstrated that she knows exactly what they mean. Not.even.kidding. For example, she will do something she isn't supposed to do, then look up at me and say, "Stop," before I can.

We sure do have our work cut out for us! 

Friday, April 08, 2016


Micah will be graduating in May. I asked him months ago if he would like to join our homeschool association's graduation ceremony and to my dismay he said no. A week ago we got a "last chance" email and I asked him again. I guess this time nagging paid off--he said yes. Part of the preparation that we need to do now is to gather 12 photos for a slideshow. As Micah and I went through photos and "argued" about which ones to include, I came up with a brilliant idea. It didn't seem to please Micah for the graduation slideshow, so I decided it would work very well as a blog post. And here it is...











And this might have been one of the best ideas I've ever had for a blog post. ::grin::

I'm sure I'll wait until after graduation to share his slideshow photos.

Saturday, April 02, 2016

Eden has another birthday!

T minus 1 year until she is a legal adult. One year until she graduates high school. One year until she earns her AA degree (a 2-year college degree). Unbelievable.

We had beautiful weather for Eden's birthday. It was over 60F outside. Eden would have loved to have friends over for a party (she LOVES birthdays), but Tuesday was PA (portable audio at Youth for Christ) night, so there was no time. Now she's working all weekend long too.

Eden runs a busy schedule. She is a full time student at our community college, taking 16 credits. She also works 15+ hours per week. She has PA one night a week where she continues to develop her musical talent. She has youth group once a week, and on a different night meets with a smaller community group of teen girls from our church. Like, seriously, she's never home. I can't tell you the last time she washed dishes around here. ;) Haha. I just had to throw that out there...

I'm beginning to doubt whether I have adequately prepared her for real life. Just kidding. A little. She used to know how to do laundry, but since I got a new washer and dryer last year I haven't let anyone near them. Think she could figure it out? I had to take a training course just to navigate the options to buy the things. ;) She also knows how to balance a budget (we use the program You Need a Budget). She just disagrees with my attention to detail. After a particularly exasperating moment where I corrected her checkbook register for her, and admonished her that it must be all "matchy-matchy," she told me she would never ask me for help again. Therefore, I conclude that she will henceforth be able to handle it all on her own. She claims that she "can't even make a pan of brownies," yet she does manage to make spaghetti. And when I leave her with the kids they usually do just fine. Sometimes she even cleans the house. So I think she will make it ok.

Ok...joking aside...

In the past year Eden got her first job and her driver's license and started college. Her first semester she got a 4.0 (all A's) and was on the President's list. She has done well! She has met challenges to her faith on campus and is learning to make her faith her own. She isn't sure what she wants to do with the rest of her life just yet. She considered different schooling options for her senior year of high school, but finally decided to continue with her original goal of getting an Associate of Arts degree in general education studies. She would love to travel the world. This summer she is returning to Nicaragua with the youth team (Micah is going too, but Mitch and I are not going this year).

Eden is a tad bit taller than me. We pretty much wear the same size except in shoes. A matter of differing tastes in fashion keeps us from raiding each others' closets. She is mourning the loss of her blonde has steadily darkened to a light brown over the years. I feel her pain.

Eden has an affinity for french fries and also for chocolate. She sometimes gets a tummy ache after eating ice cream...I can relate. Her current favorite meal at home is sloppy joes.

Spanish is her favorite subject in school. I wish I could say it was college algebra but it isn't. :) She is in her second semester of Spanish. I'm so excited for her second trip to South America. She is taking college level algebra and she has honored me by asking for my help with her homework a few times. It feels so good I just can't even describe it. I love math. She's pretty good at it, too.

She loves music and art. She is still learning to play the piano, sing, and occasionally practices on the guitar too. She loves drawing and painting. She loves studying the Bible. She dreams of having a life where she can pursue all these things more.

We are proud of the young woman Eden is becoming. She is slipping from our grasp way too quickly!!